Hi everyone I ve been working on something that came from a simple realization After an argument, many of us end up asking: Who s right? But that question almost never helps.
So I built Pairlia an AI designed to help couples understand their conflicts, not win them.
Instead of taking sides, Pairlia helps you:
understand what actually happened
uncover emotions and unmet needs
identify communication patterns
learn how to handle similar situations better
Over time, it builds a relationship memory, helping you recognize recurring patterns and break unhealthy cycles.
It can also act as a neutral mediator, where both partners can share their perspectives and feel heard. Try it here: https://pairlia.com I d really love your feedback:
Does this feel useful to you?
Would you actually use something like this?
Thanks a lot
I kept reaching for blockers, then opening YouTube and getting sucked into Home or Shorts anyway.
So I built Monk Mode for Mac. It blocks the specific feeds that wreck attention, like YouTube Home, Shorts, X For You, Reddit front pages, and similar infinite scroll surfaces, without forcing you to quit the whole app.
I kept testing prompts across Claude and ChatGPT, then checking usage later and realizing I had basically no feel for where the tokens were going.
That was the whole reason I built TokenBar for Mac. It sits in the menu bar and shows token usage in real time, so I can see when a prompt, retry, or long context window is about to turn into an expensive habit.
It is not a finance dashboard or team analytics tool. It is just a simple way to make AI usage visible while you work.
If you are building with LLMs every day, I am curious: do you track token usage live, or only after the bill shows up?
