How far should an AI follow your memory graph?
One of the hardest decisions in Second Brain v2 was deciding how much related context recall should include.
Imagine asking:
"What did we decide about the Product Hunt launch?"
A normal search might find the launch plan.
A graph-aware system could also find:
the positioning decision connected to it
feedback that changed the launch date
the demo you created afterward
a previous community post that performed well
an older decision that has since been replaced
That can be genuinely useful. It can also become noisy very quickly.
Second Brain handles this by ranking direct matches first, then expanding through connected memories with distance decay. The further away a memory is, the more evidence it needs to appear.
I want the graph to recover context you forgot existed, without making every answer feel like a tour of your entire database.
Where would you set the default?
Direct matches only
Direct matches plus one connection
Follow several connections when confidence is high
Let the AI decide each time
Second Brain v2 is live today, and this is one of the areas where I would especially value feedback.


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I like the distance decay idea. How will users adjust recall depth for different projects because one setting may not fit everyone?
Second Brain for AI
Global setting for now. The MCP already exposes the hops parameter directly so you can tune it per call. Per-project presets are on the list.
me would start with one connected memory. users could expand further only when they need extra background and supporting details.
Second Brain for AI
That's the current default. One hop keeps it tight without pulling in things you didn't ask for.
Second Brain for AI
That's the direction. The hops parameter is already configurable per MCP call. Next step is surfacing it as a user-facing setting rather than a developer option.
Hi. At MemSoph.ai we are also concerned about the memory of our AI assistants. We chose to give the users full control on what is being remembered, and whether to reinforce the memories or prune them out.
Second Brain for AI
@memsophĀ User control is the right foundation. Second Brain keeps superseded memories linked in the graph rather than erasing them, so reinforce and prune are explicit choices with the history intact. Good to see MemSoph.ai building from the same premise.
I would probably choose direct matches plus one connection as the default. It gives me enough background while keeping the answer quick and useful.
Second Brain for AI
@john__miltonĀ That's the current default. One hop adds just enough related context without pulling in things two or three degrees out.
I like the distance decay idea. The challenge isn't finding more memories it's surfacing the ones that actually help answer the question.
Second Brain for AI
@ali_haiiderĀ Exactly. Distance decay is specifically about precision, not volume. More recall only helps if what surfaces is actually relevant.
Context is valuable, but too much of it can become a distraction. I'd rather have a concise answer with the option to expand into deeper connections if needed.
Second Brain for AI
@amard_sonalĀ Direct matches always surface first, and the hops parameter lets you pull in connected context only when you need it. Tight by default, opt-in expansion when you want it.
option 3 feels right to me too, confidence-gated depth over a fixed hop count. one edge case I'm curious about - when the same memory is reachable through two separate connection paths (say, through both the launch decision and a person mentioned in both), does that count as reinforcing evidence and rank it higher, or does it just take whichever single path scored best and ignore the other? multiple independent paths converging on the same memory feels like a stronger relevance signal than distance alone would capture
Iād probably default to direct matches plus one connection.
The value of memory is not showing everything related. It is surfacing the one forgotten context that changes the decision. If the graph expands too far by default, the user has to do the filtering again, which defeats the point.