I took a micro-retirement and it made me better at building. But I felt guilty the whole time.
Instead of waiting until the end of a career to enjoy life, people are taking extended breaks throughout their working years. A few months away from work. An intentional pause. It's called a micro-retirement and it challenges the idea that leisure should be reserved for old age.
I did it last year. Two months off. No building. No side projects. No "just checking emails."
The weird part: I came back sharper. Clearer. Problems that felt impossible before the break had obvious solutions when I returned. The time away wasn't lost time. It was compound interest I didn't know I was earning.
But the entire time I was off, I felt like I was falling behind. Like everyone else was shipping while I was doing nothing. The guilt was constant.
Have you ever taken an intentional break from building? Did it help, or did the guilt ruin it? And how do you justify rest in a culture that rewards grinding?
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It kind of feels like I've been running nonstop since I made my first product 27 years ago. But it's what I love, so it never feels like work. It's more like building plastic models as a kid. From 2011 to 2015 I lived sort of like a digital nomad, but traveling only added to my own experience, it didn't change anything in the world. I realized what I want is to change the world, so I quit the nomad life and now I just hole up at home building products lol