How do you steer your coding agents when you're away from the laptop?
As a PM at a startup, I'm rarely at my desk. A typical morning: sync with engineering, code for 10 minutes, jump into a UI/UX workshop, try to squeeze in 15 min of rapid Q&A with Claude, grab coffee, take a call, eat something on the way to the next thing...
Meanwhile I've got Claude Code running in the background on a few tasks.
Come back 20 minutes later. One agent has been waiting on my approval the whole time. One asked a clarifying question 15 minutes ago and just sat there. One is mid-loop on the wrong thing and I could've redirected it if I'd seen it sooner.
Things I've tried:
--dangerously-skip-permissions; Too risky, I can't afford to nuke the project.
/goal and longer upfront prompts; They help, but I still can't course-correct in the moment something starts drifting.
The agents themselves keep getting better. The part that hasn't caught up is the small human-in-the-loop moments — approvals, clarifying questions, "are you sure", a quick redirect. Miss the moment and the agent just waits, or worse, keeps going the wrong way.
Curious what everyone here is doing:
- Phone notifications? Custom hooks? ntfy / Pushover / Slack bot?
- Just live with it and check back periodically?
- Something else?
I'm genuinely curious how people are solving the visibility + steering problem today.
What's working for you?


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Same. I've had so many cases where I thought the agent was busy working in the background, only to come back later and find it asked a question 20 minutes ago and has been waiting ever since.