What do you think about "Couple's Therapy" for co-founders?

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Have you done it? Have you thought of doing it? I just heard about it during YCombinator's Future Founders Conference 2020.
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Still trying to get my co-founder in personal therapy actually HAHA, though this would be a start. We're just doing monthly retros for now. I definitely think that being friends first and having worked together on projects in the past helps!
yeah previous experience really helps!!
I'm so glad this is getting talked about. Dr. Karen Bridbord does this through Founders Foundry (). As a Certified Gottman Therapist, she applies Gottman Method Couples Therapy to workplace relationships.
Do founders go to her like couples would?
They do. Happy to make an intro if you're interested.
I think it's a great idea! A safe environment with a professional who's not biased. Also, for non co-founders such as married couples, I think the introduction of either a micro dose of Ketamine or a micro dose of ecstasy to bring out full emotions without holding anything back.
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I think this would be beneficial if both founders are open to it! I've heard of athletes (ice dancer pairs, for example), going into couple's therapy to improve their communication and team work. If you are working that closely with someone towards a common goal and spend a lot of time together, I see why not.
Very interesting - would love to learn more!
Hi Komal, DM me if you'd like a referral.
referral to a therapist?
Yes, I know a couples therapist who specializes in working with co-founders. Here is her website:
Interesting idea! Coaching for founders is a well-established (but not universal obviously) practice that has a lot of fans and plenty of studies to back up efficacy. Curious how you might compare contrast coaching with โ€œcouplesโ€ therapy? Is therapy more backwards-looking? More emotionally focused?
Interesting! how to.......
Hey, this exists! Amity Chicago () focuses on Founder/Co-Founder therapy. They are LMFTs (Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists trained at Northwestern University) who noticed that co-founder and business relationships have a lot in common with romantic relationships (surprise!). They work with companies and VCs around the world and I'm sure they'd love to talk to you if you messaged them on their site.
wow thanks, this looks exactly like that
yes its much needed. startups are hard. startups during pandemics, political dismay and division are a little extra difficult. I look forward to hearing about the solutions. currently I am appreciating the free podcasts at reboot.io.
Great idea,
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