Other household apps are symmetric: two people log chores and get measured. OxSlate is lopsided on purpose. One person keeps the admin (bills, renewals, forms). The other gets one calm reminder at a time with a Done button, and needs no account, no email, no list. They can pause, decline, hand an item back or disconnect, and the sender can't override it. No streaks, scores or read receipts; the data model can't hold them. Hold to talk for 30 seconds and get separate, dated reminders.