How much research do you do before meeting someone new?
I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately.
As a founder, before meeting an investor, another founder, or a potential partner, I usually end up doing the same thing:
→ LinkedIn
→ X
→ Company website
→ Interviews / podcasts
→ Recent news
→ Google
Sometimes that turns into 20–30 minutes of research for one conversation.
But I realized something:
Finding information isn’t really the hard part.
The hard part is figuring out:
What actually matters for this conversation?
So I started asking myself what I actually want to know before meeting someone:
Who are they, really?
Not just their current job title.What have they actually built or done?
What are they thinking about recently?
Is there a pattern across what they’ve said and done?
What should I ask them?
What should I not assume?
I kept repeating this workflow, so eventually I turned it into a small product called People Brief.
But the product is actually less interesting to me than the behavior behind it.
I’m curious:
Before an important meeting, what do you personally want to know about the other person?
Background?
Recent activity?
Mutual connections?
What they care about?
What they’ve invested in?
What questions to ask?
Would genuinely love to hear how other people prepare.
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