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How do you deal with entrepreneurial loneliness?

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Most entrepreneurs, especially bootstrappers are working from home, alone, struggling with trying to get paying users, and not really knowing what to do... There are just too many variables... Any tips to deal with it?
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Tiagorbf
Here are some of the tips that are working for me: **Take time to write down tasks** I find it useful to sit down at the beginning of the week and plan my days. This allows me to focus on the efficient tasks that actually bring me closer to my goals. **Go work in coffee places** It helps me to leave my house and actually be surrounded by other people. **Surround yourself with other entrepreneurs** Only other entrepreneurs will really understand what you are going through. A few months ago I started a virtual coworking space for bootstrappers and we are not more than 30 people working together on our own projects. Here is a link if you are interested in learning more: https://wannabe-entrepreneur.com...
Rick Turoczy
@tiagorbf I cannot like the "surrounding yourself with other entrepreneurs" enough. It's an incredibly powerful way of finding support and community to help you manage the loneliness. Because you'll never be able to eliminate it. You just have to figure out how to manage it.
Tiagorbf
@turoczy I do think it is crucial. I have been learning a lot with my friends in the WBE space. It's a great motivation too!
Luca Restagno
@tiagorbf @turoczy I can't agree more on this Rick. Even if I'm running a side hustle, while still working with a team, I feel alone in this solopreneurial journey. I recently joined the Wanna Be Entrepreneur community and there's not a better choice I could have made. I found a lot of like-minded people to talk about my product, marketing, and so on.
Rajat Dangi 🛠️
I am first hand dealing with all of it that you mentioned in the description. But here are a few things that are helping me deal with it. 1. Surround yourself with other entrepreneurs. Meet them once in a while. 2. Surround yourself with people who have no connection with your work and professional life. They remind you that there's more to life than anything that is bothering you. 3. Travel a little, once in a while. New experiences unlock new thoughts. 4. Stay in touch with your family. Visit them frequently. 5. Stay in touch with your friends. Calls, texts, parties. 6. Scheduling one-on-one calls with new people (once in a while). Lunchclub.ai is a good place to start. 7. Remember that you are more than your work, you are more than your bank balance, you are more than all your highs and lows. Hope this helps you too :) Pro-tip: Play your favorite music and sing along. Follow your hobbies as well. For me, gardening, playing guitar, cooking, working out, helps.
Tiagorbf
@rajat_dangi1 this is pure gold. How do you meet other entrepreneurs?
Rajat Dangi 🛠️
@tiagorbf You can find them slowly while building your startup, through friends, co-working spaces, events, founder communities (incubators and accelerators), etc. It'd be difficult to stay in touch with a large number of entrepreneurs on a regular basis, one or two with whom you can be honest and open are enough.
Tiagorbf
@rajat_dangi1 makes sense. thank you
Enola VEDOVOTTO
I think the whole point is to get out of the house as soon as possible and take breaks otherwise you can quickly feel very lonely and misunderstood. Find acquaintances for lunch break and eat in the city for example, go to work in coworking spaces... and especially in the evening/weekend go out doing activities to see people, go out for a drink with friends. It looks like a boat but it feels good!
Tiagorbf
Great tips: @enola_vedovotto . I also know that I should really work on my life outside of my work but it is not easy...
Enola VEDOVOTTO
@tiagorbf Sure, but little by little you’ll get there
Jennifer
Interesting question. What has helped me in the past: -Have a support system (friends or family that believe your abilities and your project) -Connect with like minded entrepreneurs, nobody will understand what you are going through better
Tiagorbf
@jennifer00 I totally agree with you. Since I started my entrepreneurs community (https://wannabe-entrepreneur.com...) I feel much better. Like being part of a team
Rosie Sherry
Invest time into connecting with like-minded people. It's not easy, but having people to listen to your rants and frustrations is gold.
Tiagorbf
@rosiesherry you are absolutely right. We should allocate some time to meet other entrepreneurs.
Roman Vorozhtsov
The best Ways for me: Mentors, Team, Training
Tiagorbf
@roman_vorozhtsov having mentors is really important.
Raghed Goldstein
Thanks for sharing this questions as it helps others realize we all deal with these issues. Some things that have helped me is to realize that there are 100 things we can be doing, but we can only do ONE at a time. *Having a list of the task, how likely is it for this task to impact my business, and how hard it is to complete. then tackling the ones that will yield the most results and easiest to do will be a good place to start. I have learned that the more accomplished I feel, the less lonely I am. *I don't like to talk to family and friends about what I am doing, except for one friend who is also an entrepreneur, and having her to share, vent, and whine to has been extremely helpful. Being there for her too is rewarding and gives that sense of doing for others. * Take time off to enjoy with loved ones. Most important one for me. I used to feel guilty for doing that because it's time I could be spending on my work. But, taking time off to enjoy my family's company has been a game changer for me.
Tiagorbf
@raghed_goldstein thanks for sharing your ideas :) Having a list of tasks definitely helps. And totally agree being with family is crucial
Carsten Pleiser
I'd always do consulting work, working with clients etc while building the product as it gives you A) more or less stable income and B) less loneliness. - consulting gigs in any area are easy to find too. Hope this helps.
Tiagorbf
@ckpleiser I am thinking on doing the same
AlenMorgan
This topic is very nice. I appreciate it. I am a new entrepreneur and working on this site https://www.mysavinghub.com/stor...
Tiagorbf
@alenmorgan welcome to the bootstrapping world
Ben Cotte
I joined the Indiependent - A discord community run by @rosiesherry I created a small Discord server with a couple of friends who are makers.
Tiagorbf
@rosiesherry @ben_cotte Joining the wannabe entrepreneur coworking space really helped
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