Hi Product Hunt, I'm Jon, and I made Concordo.

I built it after watching people close to me go through a separation where almost every message with their ex turned into another argument. It was hard to watch, and harder for the children caught in the middle.

What struck me was that most of the rows weren't about the big decisions. They were about the small things: what time was handover, who said they'd pay for the school trip, was that swap agreed or not. When those live in old texts and memories, every disagreement becomes an argument about what was said.

So Concordo keeps one version for both homes:

Messages can't be edited or deleted once sent, and both parents see the same record
An optional tone check points out wording that might land badly, before it's sent
Calendar changes only take effect when the other parent accepts
Agreements build into a written parenting plan, and shared costs are logged with receipts

Each parent joins free; Plus is optional. It's on the web, iPhone and Android, in five languages, made in Bolton, UK.

I'd really value feedback from anyone who has co-parented, or helps families who do: what would make the hard conversations easier?

Concordo - A calm, neutral co-parenting app for separated parents

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