As founders and makers, do you take care of your mental health?

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I control every 1 hr of my day to maximize productivity. Wake up at 5:30, meditate, work, learn programming, work some more, write a novel, and run a family with 1 kid coming. You could say I'm hyper productive, but I know many of you have a lot more on your plate. As founders and makers, what do you do to make sure your sanity is kept in check?
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I found out that having a 1-hour walk every day clears my head and helps me to be more productive.
I walk everyday! Drag the dog, and my son and we are off!
Great advice. I guess that 1 hr makes a huge difference for you.
I’ve also been practicing - incorporating #ActiveResting into my workday. Nature walks w binocs led to 3 weeks of increased productivity. Also lean heavy on my Weekly tracker.
This is a great topic. I think everything is about balance. I need to sleep well, eat well, meditate and exercise, have fun, play and kiss, and so on. For me doing creative things is also very important. I have found an excellent psychiatrist to meet whenever I want. He has been very helpful in many ways. Nowadays I visit him maybe twice a year. I meet him when I want to understand something or someone in my life, often when I need to understand something from someone else’s perspective. I find this very useful to talk with a professional. One of my challenges I have found with him is that I make decisions fast. As an entrepreneur, I think it is a good thing but in order to collaborate with people, this might be challenging for some. I can quickly think about different scenarios and based on that work make a decision. It doesn’t mean I do decisions without thinking about it a lot, the thinking just happens fast and often I have already experienced something like that in the past, so I can use a bit of my intuition. Many people might consider my behavior rude. This is something that I have found during these sessions with him that I wouldn’t have otherwise. In order to better collaborate (with my fast pace) with other people, I need to slow some things down and often make a “change communications plan” although my decision has already been done. This way I have become much better at collaborating with others. I’m happy that I have found this person to help me. I know that whatever challenges I might face, he is there for me. Oh, I need to also point out that I recommend not to take any pills unless it is a must. I try to live even without any painkillers. Also, business coaches help a lot. :)
Awesome post Helene. To summarize your take: 1. Have something that brings back balance to life. 2. Talk to someone you can trust that will listen without judgement. 3. Hear different perspectives to self-evaluate.
Yes! :)
I used to work like every day all day while building my startup. But that's not healthy. Now every day I put a stop at 7 pm. I don't work after that time. And I take 1hr walk afterwards or go for a run and that helps a lot clearing my head. Apart from that, I think what's key here is to spend time with people who have nothing to do with the startup world. It's not good to always discuss about startups, that's not healthy either. At the end of the day, if you want to do unique things, you have to live different kind of experiences.
So true. Hope many people are able to optimize their days soon.
What do you think of 1hour/week with therapist? You can improve assertiveness, relationship with team etc...
I think that's good. But I think that's meant for startups that have the money.
I meditate 5 times a day. Very beneficial
Wow. How long?
Be kind to yourself, always. Don't give yourself a hard time. That's someone else's job - and you're free to ignore them. If you're going to have an internal dialogue, it might as well be a nice one. There are tonnes of meditation apps but my fave is on account of it's secular approach and supplementary philosophical content.
Being kind to yourself is surprisingly hard!
You are absolutely right, David. It is not easy. Just as being overly self-critical must be unlearned, so too must self-affirmation be learned. Both require sustained conviction.
Having a great hobby is something I turn to. Motorcycling is my go-to method to relax and keep sane.
Exciting. My wife will kill me for taking that up!
you could try and convert her into this as well :)
Health, whether physical, mental, or emotional should always be the topmost priority. I have been a regular student of a complete fitness regime. My daily regime involves waking up at 5 am, exercises for an hour, meditation/prayer for an hour, and keep doing some small stretches throughout the day. It all changed when my father said "Today, you may be busy and working hard to earn and make wealth, but if you don't take care of your health, one day you will have to pay all the money to the doctor than enjoy it.
True words. Wise father, you have.
I have found programming your schedule on Sunday night gives you some predictability to the week. Personally, with work from home I have adopted mid-day workout schedules which has been quite nice and a good mental break in the day. What is your current schedule?
Love scheduling the week on Sunday. My basic schedule often looks like this: 5:30 am - wake up 6:00 am - meditate 6:30 am - work 11:30 am - lunch 12:30 pm - end lunch 4:00 pm - end work (1st bulk ) 5:00 pm - dinner 6:00 pm - exercise 6:30 pm - work 9:00 pm - end of work (2nd bulk) 10:00 pm - sleep Extra programming, writing a novel, and everything else goes in too depending on the day. But similar structure. Of course, I don't do any of that on Saturday. It's my day off.
Unfortunately not really. My mind keeps running in thousands of different directions and the lack of sleep is my daily bread. Not good for the health I know but it's out of my control I'm afraid. Been like this for years.
Felt that too mu friend. But keep trying to get that sleep in different ways. I feel like it could bite back down the road.
thanks bud for the concerns and the word of advice. I think I suffer from chronic insomnia and it's very hard to cope with at times. But will do my best to organize my sleep to the best of my abilities. Cheers
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