What have you learned the most from failure?

Aaron O'Leary
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Failure is one of the best educators and whilst it hurts at the start it can really set you up for success. What have you learned from failure?

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Sergei Arlov
- The inability to learn from the mistakes of others has already taken away several years of my life. I do too many actions “for experience”, but my head is not made of iron — if it constantly beats against the wall, then one day I may not get up. - Creating a technological product alone is the same as trying to move a mountain. Either you have to crush rocks for ages and drag them, or you will break yourself at the very beginning of the journey. Startup needs a stable team, and it needs an organized leader. - There is no point in developing an MVP for months — it burns motivation and does not bring money. Rapid testing of hypotheses is the thing we need. Getting out to users as soon as possible and collecting feedback is the highest good. A detailed market research at the stage of the developing of an idea is the best solution that allows to nip 90% of unpromising projects in the bud. - We should not "play" too much with manual labor, especially if there are not enough hands. It quickly becomes a routine, and a routine that does not bring high results kills the desire to do what seemed to be a favorite thing three months ago. - Planning is a thankless task, but I can't find like-minded people without a plan. I've enjoyed inventing startups for too long and disliked building a working business for too long.
Aaron O'Leary
@sergey_arlov This. "There is no point in developing an MVP for months", see it time and time again and I've done it myself. Waiting until something is perfect it will never launch
Sergei Arlov
@aaronoleary, yes, exactly! "There is nothing more eternal than temporary things". It's always like "Well, we are not good enough, let's make it a bit better and then launch". but you never know are you good enough or not if this opinion is only in your own head. I have had many many similar situations, so I understand you 100%
Sergei Arlov
@aaronoleary and I'm very happy that we didn't repeat this mistake when we launched Listva 2 days ago. Yes, there is only one function in MVP, but we have the opportunity to constructively and substantively communicate with users, listen to feedback and adjust the strategy of development
Kamban
1. That your users do not care about the technologies you use. 2. Premature optimization is the root of evil. I built a whole project on the serverless tech that no one used.
Nel Prinsloo
If I wanted to use a cliché, I would say that it is a step nearer to whatever destination one would call success, but I think in certain ways – even labelling an endeavour as "failure" or "success" can be a trap that we should avoid. Neither “success” nor “failure” is a destination. If I saw my own mental picture of success as a destination, and upon arrival, I decided to unpack the car after the journey and kick back while I crack open a beer, it's unlikely I'll spend very long in that place I imagine to be "success." This is not at all an admonition to never unpack the car, kick back, and crack open a beer. For a long time, I adopted Ralph Waldo Emerson's definition (which I found on one of the first pages of a Tony Robbins book – Unlimited Power, but that is neither here nor there) as perfectly acceptable. But as I accumulated more wrinkles and continued to observe, I realised that it may have been the perfect definition for a time in the past. These days I see success more as a state-of-mind, an indicator of how we play the cards dealt to us in any specific moment. Do I spend every waking hour in this supposedly blissful state of mind? "No, siree! Most definitely not." We're all alive and that means that we should never be stationary - even when it is in the "success" state of mind. Challenges occur and I sometimes get anxious or irritable or so sad that I'm crying my eyes out. But contentment, success, kindness, and gratitude are always the place that I do my best to veer towards even when current circumstances are challenging. Life is probably more challenging for most people than what it was five years ago. There is more unemployment, poverty, crime, and scams than ever before. Throwing in the towel would be totally understandable. But continuing to show up every day – regardless of whether we had to crawl there, and bringing along our “I choose hope and optimism” badge – that is the true litmus test (in my own admittedly unconventional mind) of inhabiting success. If we manage to do it without turning a blind eye towards people facing worse challenges all around us, and with boundaries in place just healthy enough not to be completely self-obsessed, but yet solid enough to prevent the scamsters from targeting us. If we do that – we are not failing at anything. At least – we’re not failing, yet.
Sarah Jordi
that it is NEVER as bad as it feels in the moment.
Farooq (SF Ali) Zafar
1. There is no "failure", there is only experience. 2. One's "failure" is another's extreme "success". 3. "Failure" is a state of mind, not a state of being. 4. Commitment starts and consistency finishes. 5. Ease threatens progress more than hardship. 6. "Success" is romanticized as "failure" demonized. 7. Internal contentment > external expectations. 8. Nobody cares about your W/L like you assume. 9. Perfection is shooting the shot, not scoring. 10. "Failure": things didn't go my way? That's life.
Aaron O'Leary
@sfali789 Good way to look at failure, more as experience, gonna take this
Developer
Do not depend on one single service.
Pir Ahmed
Over the years, I have learned this one thing that has completely changed my mindset and how I deal with failures... "there's no such thing as failure, its the feedback we get."
Trisha Guru
Analyze the mistake you did, and come again tomorrow with a robust plan.
Rupesh Raj
Well for me I learnt that things will always fall back in place if you choose to keep going and if that's not the you are gonna forever that your story in regret!
Soumya Chaturvedi
Failure is a part of life. It is a stepping stone to success. teaches you about yourself and your capabilities. Learning from it is important
Santa
My experience shows me that failure is usually a protection and it usually redirects me to a better path.
Karthik Kamalakannan
Two life-changing things: 1. Patience 2. Perseverance
Julia Zakharova
Accept and correct the situation.
Lucy Heskins
Great question. Here's my take from working in a startup: Fall in love with the product, not the team. > It's easy to get swept up in the founders' story, but they may not be around the whole time as you scale. Let your customers tell you what category you’re in. > You can't tell people you're game-changing or innovative... unless you customers tell you. You don’t need to act on everyone’s advice. > Especially if they aren't going to pay your bills. It’s normal to feel like crap most of the time, but celebrate the small wins. > In other words - go in with a growth mindset. Some days it's going to get hard... :)
Maria
Acceptance. I learned to accept situation and stay ego-less 😄
Restoration 1 of New York
Failure Can Be a Great Source of Motivation.
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The best strategies and ideas can still fail. If you succeed once and stop, you might soon find yourself out of business or struggling to survive. Successful entrepreneurs face failure, learn from it, and keep moving forward.
Henry
From failure, we learn resiliency.
Chintan Sapovadiya
Never get intimidated by your failures. Initially, it looks like a huge deal but as time passes everything gets normal. Retrospect where did things gone wrong and learn from it. Our first PH launch was not impressive but it was our first time so our team did the retrospection, learned from our failure and got back with strong mindset and we were "#1 PRODUCT OF THE DAY".