Anna R

Hey Makers, I need to be real for a second. I’ve spent the last 6 months building LoveActually.ai. We engineered a 9-dimension compatibility engine, solved complex context-window problems for long-term memory , and created two distinct AI personalities (one mean, one kind) to solve the "swiping fatigue". Technically, I’m proud of it. Marketing-wise? I’m crashing hard. 📉 I tried posting "fun"...

Most AI wrappers feel the same because everyone uses the same "You are a helpful assistant" system prompt. For our project (LoveActually), we needed two extreme opposites: Astute Kitty: High logic, critical, concise (The Strategist). Loving Kitty: High empathy, verbose, memory-retentive (The Supporter). We found that simply saying "Be mean" doesn't work—the model fights its RLHF safety rails....

Hey Product Hunt, I’m the maker behind LoveActually.ai. During our beta, we made a controversial product decision that split our team, and I want to hear your take. Most AI companions (like ChatGPT or Pi) are RLHF-tuned to be supportive, polite, and agreeable. But in the dating world, we found that "politeness" was actually hurting our users. They didn't need a cheerleader; they needed a...

Hey everyone! We’ve all been there. You’re staring at a match, the cursor is blinking, and your brain is a mess. One half of you is saying: “What’s the move? Should I wait? Is this a red flag? I need a strategy.” The other half is whispering: “I’m just tired. I want to be seen. I want someone who actually gets me.” When we built LoveActually.ai, we realized that dating isn’t a one-dimensional...

Hi PH! We’re the team behind LoveActually.ai — an AI relationship companion built for people who are tired of wasting time on modern dating apps. We didn’t set out to build “yet another dating app.” We built this because we hit the same wall many of you have: endless swiping, shallow matches, and algorithms that optimize for engagement, not meaningful connection. After one too many “Read”...

After my own burnout from swipe apps, I'm creating LoveActually.ai—not another swiper, but an AI that deeply understands you for better matches, guides chats in real-time, and supports emotionally. Mission: Match with science. Chat with confidence. Heal with AI. We're coding the core features now (9D compatibility, wingman advice, memory-based support) and want community input before full...

Hey PH community 👋 Modern dating apps leave so many people exhausted—endless swiping, ghosting, superficial matches that go nowhere. I've felt it myself, and after bad experiences on Tinder/Hinge, I'm building LoveActually.ai: an AI matchmaker that uses deep psychology (like attachment styles and core values) for meaningful connections, plus tools like real-time chat coaching and emotional...