Anna R

Anna R

Dating is broken. We fix it.

About

Hi Product Hunt! I’m Anna, and I lead the Marketing team at LoveActually.ai. For too long, dating apps have treated us like a game of 'luck' and 'probability,' leading to the soul-crushing cycle of endless swiping and ghosting. While traditional marketing focuses on polished perfection, we focus on radical honesty. You’ll see Astute Kitty acting as your brutally honest AI wingman—critiquing your 'job-resume' style profile and fixing your dry opening lines. Meanwhile, Loving Kitty provides the emotional safety net we all need after a rough dating week, using long-term memory to remember your favorite coffee or your past heartbreaks. My goal is to help you stop being a 'swiping victim' and start using precise AI matchmaking to find the connection you actually deserve. 😼

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I built a complex AI Memory Architecture, but I can't figure out how to talk to you guys.

Hey Makers,

I need to be real for a second.

I ve spent the last 6 months building LoveActually.ai. We engineered a 9-dimension compatibility engine, solved complex context-window problems for long-term memory , and created two distinct AI personalities (one mean, one kind) to solve the "swiping fatigue".

Steal our "Personality Stack": How we engineered an AI to be intentionally "Mean" vs. "Kind".

Most AI wrappers feel the same because everyone uses the same "You are a helpful assistant" system prompt.

For our project (LoveActually), we needed two extreme opposites:

Astute Kitty: High logic, critical, concise (The Strategist).

Dev Debate: We tuned our LLM to be "brutally honest" instead of "helpful". Is this UX suicide?

Hey Product Hunt,

I m the maker behind LoveActually.ai. During our beta, we made a controversial product decision that split our team, and I want to hear your take.

Most AI companions (like ChatGPT or Pi) are RLHF-tuned to be supportive, polite, and agreeable. But in the dating world, we found that "politeness" was actually hurting our users. They didn't need a cheerleader; they needed a wake-up call.

So, we built Astute Kitty. We engineered its system prompt to prioritize "rational critique" over "emotional safety." It calls users out when their dating standards don't match their own profiles.

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