LoveActually AI Matchmaker

Find Your Soulmate 10x Easier with Coach & Companion Kitties

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Find Your Soulmate 10x Easier with Coach & Companion Kitties

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Dating apps today offer motion, not meaning. LoveActually’s Astute Kitty &Loving Kitty exist to change that. Astute Kitty acts as your AI matchmaker and dating strategist, building a dynamic nine-dimension model of you, matching you with people who genuinely align, and guiding you through real conversations and dates. And when things get tough, Loving Kitty gives grounded emotional clarity and steady support. You’ll finally get matches—and guidance—that actually make sense.

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22d ago

Engineering "Tough Love": The Prompt Stack behind Astute Kitty.

Most AI assistants are too "nice."

If you ask ChatGPT for dating advice, it gives you a polite, generic list of tips that rarely works in the real world.

For LoveActually.ai, we had a different challenge:
How do we engineer an AI to be brutally honest without breaking its RLHF safety rails?

Enter Astute Kitty. We built her personality stack using:

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22d ago

Launch Countdown - 48 Hours: Why I Quit Swiping to Build a "Dating Brain"

Hey Product Hunt,

I ve spent years on dating apps, and I realized something frustrating: most platforms are just surface-level marketplaces. They match you based on a height filter and three filtered photos. No wonder we re all exhausted.

When we started building LoveActually.ai, we didn t want to build another "gallery." We wanted to build a "Dating Brain."

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22d ago

We learned that “being nice” is a technical decision, not a personality trait

While building our AI matchmaker at LoveActually.ai, we ran into an unexpected engineering lesson.

Niceness in AI isn t free.

It s a tuning choice.

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Hi PH! We’re the team behind LoveActually.ai — an AI relationship companion built for people who are tired of wasting time on modern dating apps. We didn’t set out to build “yet another dating app.” We built this because we hit the same wall many of you have: endless swiping, shallow matches, and algorithms that optimize for engagement, not meaningful connection. After one too many “Read” receipts and subscription upgrades that changed nothing, we uninstalled everything and asked ourselves: What if an AI actually understood who we are — and helped us date better, end to end? That question became LoveActually.ai, powered by two AI companions: Astute Kitty → Your matchmaker + wingman Loving Kitty → Your emotional anchor Together, they form an AI system that replaces the chaotic dating grind with clarity, guidance, and support. ✨ What We Built (3 Core Pillars) 1. 9D AI Compatibility Engine — Astute Kitty (Your Matchmaker) Most apps match you on surface tags. Astute Kitty builds a living psychological profile through conversation — emotional patterns, attachment style, communication style, values, boundaries. It understands you deeply and only suggests matches with long-term compatibility potential. 2. Real-time Chat & Date Coach — Astute Kitty (Your Wingman) Dating anxiety is real. Astute Kitty reads tone and intent, helps you interpret signals, drafts clearer replies, and even creates personalized date plans based on both personalities. It’s like having a socially intelligent co-pilot for every conversation. 3. Emotional Support System — Loving Kitty (Your Safety Net) Dating is emotionally taxing. Loving Kitty remembers your history, helps you process setbacks, reframes overthinking, and keeps you grounded. It’s the steady presence that makes dating feel less draining and more constructive. ❤️ Why We Exist Not to give you infinite choices. Not to trap you in endless engagement loops. But to give you the right choice — with clarity, support, and emotional intelligence. If you’re done with the noise, the silence, and the self-doubt, try LoveActually ai. We built it because we needed it ourselves. — The LoveActually Team (Former swiping survivors turned builders)

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