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I'm spearheading the development of LoveActually.ai, the next-generation AI-powered dating app. Dating is broken. AI fixes it. Stop swiping, start connecting.

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LoveActually AI MatchmakerFind Your Soulmate 10x Easier with Coach & Companion Kitties
Jan 2026

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Joined Product HuntNovember 17th, 2025

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5mo ago

We learned that “being nice” is a technical decision, not a personality trait

While building our AI matchmaker at LoveActually.ai, we ran into an unexpected engineering lesson.

Niceness in AI isn t free.

It s a tuning choice.

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5mo ago

From a systems perspective: should AI coaches optimize for comfort or correction?

Hey PH

We re building LoveActually.ai, an AI matchmaker launching soon.

I wanted to share a technical dilemma we ran into and hear how other builders think about it.

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5mo ago

Dev Debate: We tuned our LLM to be "brutally honest" instead of "helpful". Is this UX suicide?

Hey Product Hunt,

I m the maker behind LoveActually.ai. During our beta, we made a controversial product decision that split our team, and I want to hear your take.

Most AI companions (like ChatGPT or Pi) are RLHF-tuned to be supportive, polite, and agreeable. But in the dating world, we found that "politeness" was actually hurting our users. They didn't need a cheerleader; they needed a wake-up call.

So, we built Astute Kitty. We engineered its system prompt to prioritize "rational critique" over "emotional safety." It calls users out when their dating standards don't match their own profiles.