Hily

We spark memorable talks between singles

5.0•14 reviews•

37 followers

We spark memorable talks between singles

5.0•14 reviews•

37 followers

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Hily Dating App is made to help you connect with new people, start meaningful relationships and make friends. With more than 20 million users worldwide, we make it easy to meet someone new and find local dates.

Hily Reviews

The community submitted 14 reviews to tell us what they like about Hily, what Hily can do better, and more.

5.0

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Reviewers mostly describe Hily as a calmer, less performative dating app that makes starting and sustaining conversations easier. They repeatedly praise icebreakers, conversation prompts, and compatibility stories for helping chats feel natural, especially for introverts or people returning to dating after divorce. Users also like the clean, low-pressure design, saying it avoids constant upsells and lets connections develop at a comfortable pace, whether romantic or platonic. Verification is another recurring plus, with several reviewers saying it helped the app feel safer and more genuine.

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compatibility stories (8)

engaging chat setup (6)

positive user interactions (6)

encourages authenticity (4)

effective profile verification (2)

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•1 review

I’m super private online, so dating apps always made me nervous. But with Hily, the vibe was different. First off, their verification is quick but solid — no fake profiles so far, which is huge. Second, I liked how the app didn't feel pushy. It let me go at my own pace. I matched with someone who also prefers a slower start, and we ended up having a week-long convo before even exchanging social media. We shared playlists and talked about road trips we want to take. Felt safe and real — and honestly, that’s the first time I’ve said that about a dating app.

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positive user interactions (6)compatibility stories (8)effective profile verification (2)

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•1 review

I’m not great at small talk and I honestly dread first messages on dating apps. Most of the time, I’d rather not start anything than send some awkward “hey.” What helped me on Hily was their convo starters. They’re lowkey perfect for introverts like me who want to connect but don’t know how to break the ice. I matched with someone who replied to the same prompt and boom — instant flow. No pressure to be super charming or witty right away. The app feels more like a soft entry into dating, which I appreciate so much. It’s not trying to push you into anything, it just creates a vibe where conversations can happen naturally. Finally, a space where introverts don’t have to pretend to be extroverts just to get noticed.

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engaging chat setup (6)encourages authenticity (4)icebreakers (1)

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25 views8mo ago

•1 review

I didn’t go on Hily looking for love right away. Honestly, I was just curious and open to conversations. What surprised me was how many people were actually open to chatting about life, goals, even careers. One match turned into a regular brainstorming buddy — we both work in design, and now we swap ideas and support each other’s projects. It’s not even romantic (yet?), but that’s what makes it cool. Hily didn’t force anything, and that’s rare. It gave space for connection to evolve into whatever it’s meant to be — friendship, partnership, or something in between.

What's great

positive user interactions (6)compatibility stories (8)engaging chat setup (6)encourages authenticity (4)

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•1 review

I downloaded Hily not expecting much, but it kinda changed how I see dating apps. First thing I noticed was how chill the layout is, like it’s not trying to overload you with stuff. Then came the icebreakers — super helpful, especially if you hate making the first move. But what really got me was how many of my matches actually wanted to talk about something, not just small talk. One guy and I ended up chatting about hiking spots in Oregon and swapped trail recs for a full hour. That’s rare. If you’re tired of the same old “wyd” convos, Hily actually gives you space for real ones.

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positive user interactions (6)compatibility stories (8)

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18 views8mo ago

•1 review

After my divorce, I wasn’t even sure I wanted to date again. Most apps felt shallow or too chaotic. But Hily was surprisingly different. It didn’t feel like I was being thrown into a meat market. The vibe was calmer, and the questions they ask when setting up your profile made it feel like they actually care about who you are, not just what you look like. I matched with someone who’d also been through a divorce, and we connected over that shared experience. We didn’t rush anything — just got to know each other, one message at a time. And for the first time in years, I felt like dating could actually be kind and supportive, not exhausting.

What's great

positive user interactions (6)compatibility stories (8)engaging chat setup (6)encourages authenticity (4)

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•1 review

I was so over the performative dating app culture — everyone trying to look cooler than they are, showing off trips and filters. Hily felt refreshingly normal. The design is simple, the chats don’t feel forced, and the people I met there actually seemed open. One guy and I ended up talking about why we both left social media and how exhausting everything online feels. No pretending, no pressure. Just quiet, real connection. That’s rare now, and I’m grateful for it.

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clean interface (1)positive user interactions (6)engaging chat setup (6)encourages authenticity (4)

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8 views8mo ago

•1 review

What sets the Hily dating app apart is the "compatibility stories" feature. It's usually spot on about communication styles or sense of humor. Makes me more willing to give people a chance who might not be my usual "type" visually. Has definitely led to some unexpectedly great conversations with people I would've otherwise passed on.

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compatibility stories (8)

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5 views11mo ago

•1 review

one thing I like abt Hily is the chat setup actually helps keep convos goin. most apps feel dry n boring but this one makes it easier to talk fr. feels more like gettin to know someone, not just swipin around

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engaging chat setup (6)

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•1 review

don’t sleep on Hily. It’s cleaner than most dating apps and ppl actually talk hereet someone who’s on the same page about life goals and values. Never had that happen this quick on any app before.

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positive user interactions (6)compatibility stories (8)

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5 views9mo ago

•1 review

I was always skeptical about online dating, but Hily changed my mind. Thanks to this app, I met an incredible girl with whom we have been together for several months. We are planning a trip together!

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compatibility stories (8)

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