Dating apps have raised billions optimizing for compatibility. They're still losing. Match rates are down. Ghosting is up. Users churn after 3 months because nothing sticks. The apps keep adding AI, better algorithms, more filters - trying to eliminate the friction. But the friction isn't the problem. The problem is that nobody wants a perfectly optimized stranger. They want someone real. Someone messy. Someone whose chaos matches their own. I built RedFlag around that insight.