Not Pink - A shared bucket list with active scheduling and planning

Most couples apps send you daily questions. Not Pink helps you do the stuff. A shared bucket list with a 4-phase flow (Align, Plan, Prepare, Relive) that turns "we should do that sometime" into dates on the calendar. Offline-first, built for couples who've been together long enough to know relationships don't run on autopilot.

Hey Product Hunt,

I'm Thomas. I built Not Pink because my partner and I kept having the same conversation. "We should go to Lisbon." "We should try that pottery class." Then nothing happens. "We should" isn't a plan.

Every couples app I tried was a daily-question app or a streak tracker. None of them helped us do things together.

So I built the thing I wanted. Every idea moves through four phases:

Align (we both want this)
Plan (pick a when and where)
Prepare (book it, pack it)
Relive (photos and reflections after)

Both partners confirm to advance a phase, which stops one person from dragging the other through life.

A few things under the hood:

Offline-first sync via PowerSync. Works on a plane or a rural Airbnb with no signal.
Kotlin Multiplatform, so I can ship Android once iOS is stable.
No ads, no feed, no streak dashboards pretending to score your relationship.

Would love feedback from makers who've shipped lifestyle or couple apps. If you've got a partner, the test is whether you both open it more than once this week.

Not Pink - A shared bucket list with active scheduling and planning

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