Do you keep a diary/journal?

Jefferson Vargas
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Hi there! I’m delighted you can make it to follow up on my first posts up here, figuring out how this works out now and then. Anyway. Let’s get straight to the main point! So, while writing some blog posts and other textual content, I did some reflective exercises about writing, whether digitally or on paper sheets. Once, I read “True genius documents and write down for themselves...” and since I couldn’t come up with a solid answer, I decided to ask you all, connoisseurs, here. Is it worthwhile to write down in notebooks? Is it okay to only stick to our phones? PS: Da Vinci had a lot of diaries and journals. It might be interesting to dive into them. See you in the comment box!

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Santa
Welcome to the community @callmejeff! If I am not mistaken you are referring to the books of Michael J. Gelb? I read two of them during my high school years. I used to keep a journal prior to reading them and I kept different kinds of journals afterwards. Earlier versions were more of a diary, then expanded in sketchbooks, notebooks with articles from magazines, photo books, pinterest boards, youtube playlists etc. I haven't done traditional journaling for ages now, but I still like to document my thought processes. Couple of other examples of untraditional journaling: 1) For any quick quotes, links or articles I share them as DM to myself in FB or IG. 2) I created playlists for music I have been listening to in different time periods( yearly), locations (countries I have lived in and associations I have with them) or moods. So if for whatever reason I feel nostalgic or creative or heartbroken, I can just jump right into that emotion. 3) I collect things that I feel drawn to or inspired in various Pinterest boards. Mostly related to my interests and hobbies, but in the aesthetic department like drawing, home decorating, fashion, recipes, photography etc. In a more subtle way, it is also some kind of Bucket list of the things I would love to have as experiences in my life. Whether it's places to visit, things to create or learn, etc. 4) For more in-depth `status updates` I record videos of myself talking like a video diary. It has been a part of my healing journey, to `move` my thoughts and my emotions out of my body using my voice and non verbal expressions. I can then rewatch them later on, validate my experience as well as track my progress. It has also been a great way to practise vulnerability and authenticity. I have had difficulties formulating my thoughts to any external source and it has helped me to improve. Additionally, it allows me to catch myself when I try to play down or excuse certain things or where I am still hesitant to open up and speak my mind, even if with just myself ( videos are for my views only). 5) Sometimes I even record videos of myself singing. I am not particularly good at it, but it's part of self expression and healing. It´s a way to journal both things mentioned in No.2 and No.4. 6) I am sure there is more, but nothing comes to mind currently. If I recall anything else, I will come back to this post and update it. Anyways, answering your questions. I would say, if anyone is inspired by journaling, there is something in it for them and that something will be entirely different for any two individuals. Format or medium is not important in my opinion. Important is to follow one's own urge to explore, collect, reflect on `objects` of their interest or fascination. So one can use either notebook or phone, or both, whatever works best for each person and type of journal. Those are all just tools that allow us to somehow imprint them. And last thing that I wanted to mention is to do it for the sake of doing, not from getting certain results out of it like `becoming a genius` or maybe ´becoming enlightened / healed`etc. If one will see it rather as a chore with little joy involved, just to reap some rewards at the end, it will not be a very fruitful journey. However, it can greatly assist anyone with self expression, creativity and thought processing.
Jefferson Vargas
@santalo thanks a lot for your sharing! Reading this was wonderful and I felt a part of you in it. I'm definitely trying recording videos of myself. Surprisingly, I love singing and friends tell me I'm good at it but I'm not that prone to doing so. Loved the way you have to swing from mood to mood through music! I'm also a music lover, so much so that I learned music production over the years. At last, I definitely agree with the final things you mentioned. This habit or activity (at least for me) is more intended to understand myself and the way I process and create ideas, whether mine or inspired by others. By the way, any mindfulness book, research you recommend? 🙌
Santa
@callmejeff Thanks. We sound a lot alike in this context. Have you posted any of your music productions or singing yet? It would be lovely to hear them, if so. There are multiple mindfulness books I could recommend. Is there any specific (sub)area that is more of an interest for you currently? Such as authenticity, trauma, parenting, life mission, conflict / relationships, religious beliefs, etc. May I ask, what are some of your favourite / most influential books or authors that had an impact on your life?
Jefferson Vargas
@santalo Yes! Let me send you my Soundcloud profile via DM. Would be lovely to hear you singing as well tho. I'd say life mission, authenticity, trauma and relationships sound alike to me. I've read Jim Kwik's literary works. Also a lot of Stoicisim-based books. Top 3: A Guide to Good Life Little book of Stoicism The Daily Stoic Journal But the most impactful one was The Archetypes and the Collective Unconscious by Carl Jung.
Santa
@callmejeff I don`t know about my singing 😊I have a clip or two that I shared on FB with my friends, but I guess, I would feel too shy to share them beyond my cycles 😎 But let´s see. Feel free to send me yours though.
Santa
@callmejeff Regarding books, I will list some of my recommendations below. Take what resonates and leave the rest. I hope you find something worthwhile Life mission: - The code of extraordinary mind by Vishen Lakhiani (founder of Mindvalley) https://www.goodreads.com/book/s... - How to be everything by Emilie Wapnick ( founder of Puttylike) https://www.goodreads.com/book/s... Authenticity: - Daring greatly by Brene Brown https://www.goodreads.com/book/s... Trauma: - Everything is here to help you by Matt Kahn https://www.goodreads.com/book/s... - Waking the Tiger by Peter Lavine https://www.goodreads.com/book/s... Relationships: - Getting to zero by Jayson Gaddis (founder of Relationship school) https://www.goodreads.com/book/s...
Jefferson Vargas
@richw hey! so what other document methods do you like using? any?
Julia Zakharova
I'm a fan of all sources of notes, especially paper notebooks. Even sketchbooks, sketchbooks, and black sheets. All kinds of online notes and the regular notebook on my PC and phone.
Jefferson Vargas
@julia_zakharova2 I'm also a big fan of paper notebooks. I'd love to attach a photo of my desk right now so you can see 🤭. For long have you been keeping them?