"๐ ๐๐ฆ ๐ ๐๐จ๐ซ๐ง ๐๐๐๐ข๐๐ญ, ๐๐ฎ๐ญ ๐'๐ฆ ๐๐๐ซ๐๐ข๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฆ๐๐จ๐ง๐." This week, a raw, anonymous confession landed in my inbox: It wasn't an isolated plea. This was just one of 192 similar responses from a recent survey of 232 professionals, revealing a hidden crisis that's silently eroding our society.
Let me share something that will shock you.
The numbers behind the silence:
88% of men consume pornography regularly
Average age of first exposure: 12 years old
64% report it negatively impacts their relationships
76% have tried to quit but failed multiple times
But here's the disturbing part most people don't know...
What porn is doing to our society:
Average male sperm count
In 1940: 113 million/ml
In 1990: 66 million/ml
from 2018: Continued decline at a rate of -0.87 million/ml per year
During the same period, the number of men with low sperm count doubled. Additionally, testosterone levels in men have been rapidly declining over the last 20 years.
The connection? Studies show earlier pornography use is associated with lower sperm concentrations (๐๐ฟ๐ผ๐ป๐๐ถ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ป๐ฑ๐ผ๐ฐ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ป๐ผ๐น๐ผ๐ด๐, 2021).
This is a growing epidemic because nobody is bold enough to talk about it openly. It's become so normalized that people don't even recognize it as a problem. We discuss mental health, burnout, and addiction openly. But mention porn addiction? Silence.
Meanwhile, it's:
Destroying productivity
ยฐRuining relationships and intimacy
ยฐKilling motivation and focus
ยฐContributing to male fertility crisis
ยฐCreating shame cycles that prevent seeking help
So what if we could build a solution:-
๐๐จ๐๐จ๐ซ๐ง.
Not just another blocker that says "NO" and leaves you hanging.
A complete recovery system.
The psychology: ๐๐๐ฉ๐ฅ๐๐๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ก๐ข๐ญ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ซ๐ง ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐๐๐ก๐ข๐๐ฏ๐๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ ๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ. ๐๐ง๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐๐ ๐จ๐ ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ญ๐๐ ๐๐๐ญ๐๐ซ ๐ซ๐๐ฅ๐๐ฉ๐ฌ๐ โ ๐ ๐๐๐ฅ ๐๐๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ข๐ฌ๐ก๐๐ ๐๐๐ญ๐๐ซ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ก๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ฌ.
We're also building a Discord community for contributors, beta testers, and anyone ready to break the silence around this epidemic.
My controversial take: This silence is literally killing us. If 40% of men now have fertility issues compared to 15% in the 1930s, and we have data linking it to pornography consumption, why aren't we talking about this? The normalization needs to stop.
Question for the brave ones in the comments: What's one "๐ป๐ผ๐ฟ๐บ๐ฎ๐น๐ถ๐๐ฒ๐ฑ" behavior in society that you think is actually destroying us?
The DMs are open. Sometimes acknowledging the problem is the hardest part.
Hey Guys I'm 20 years old, and i recently found out that my peer group and other teens are suffering from porn addiction, so I came up with a solution, and i need your help and support.
The psychology: ๐๐๐ฉ๐ฅ๐๐๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ก๐ข๐ญ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ซ๐ง ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐๐๐ก๐ข๐๐ฏ๐๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ฉ๐จ๐ฌ๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ ๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ. ๐๐ง๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐๐ ๐จ๐ ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ญ๐๐ ๐๐๐ญ๐๐ซ ๐ซ๐๐ฅ๐๐ฉ๐ฌ๐ โ ๐ ๐๐๐ฅ ๐๐๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ข๐ฌ๐ก๐๐ ๐๐๐ญ๐๐ซ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ก๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ฌ.
Hey Guys I'm 20 years old, and i recently found out that my peer group and other teens are suffering from porn addiction, so I came up with a solution, and i need your help and support.