Oskar Nilsson

I’m not great at small talk and I honestly dread first messages on dating apps. Most of the time, I’d rather not start anything than send some awkward “hey.” What helped me on Hily was their convo starters. They’re lowkey perfect for introverts like me who want to connect but don’t know how to break the ice. I matched with someone who replied to the same prompt and boom — instant flow. No pressure to be super charming or witty right away. The app feels more like a soft entry into dating, which I appreciate so much. It’s not trying to push you into anything, it just creates a vibe where conversations can happen naturally. Finally, a space where introverts don’t have to pretend to be extroverts just to get noticed.