People who build things are good at solving hard problems. Relationships somehow don’t fall into that category. You can run a company, manage teams, make high-stakes decisions — and still keep ending up in conversations that go nowhere or in situations that don’t fit your life at all. The issue shows up later. You meet someone, things look fine on the surface, and then the reality of how both of you live kicks in. Work rhythms, priorities, emotional patterns, expectations — none of that is visible early enough. BiggDate is built around that gap. It starts with a guided conversation that actually understands how you think and how you show up in relationships. From there, you’re placed into a small, relevant circle where interaction happens before any introduction. Over time, patterns emerge. Introductions happen with context. There’s also an offline layer, because eventually this has to move beyond a screen. We’re starting with people in startups and product ecosystems first. The context is tighter, and the signal is stronger there. Still early. Curious how others think about this — at what point do you usually realise something isn’t going to work?

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Swiping feels like a full-time job

At some point, I realised my life stopped fitting into how dating apps work.

My day isn t predictable. Some days go 14 hours deep into work. Some days I disappear into ideas. Sometimes I cancel plans because something important just clicked.

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BiggDate — For People Who Build Things

Dating for founders and builders without swipes

Dating for founders and builders without swipes

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Swiping feels like a full-time job

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Swiping feels like a full-time job