What's the most chaotic group trip you've ever tried to plan?

We've all been there. You start a group chat full of excitement — "let's finally do this trip!" — and three weeks later it's 300 unread messages, a Google Sheet nobody updated, and zero actual decisions.

I'm curious how everyone here survives it:

• 📅 How do you get everyone to agree on dates? (Doodle? Polls? Pure chaos?)

• 📍 Who decides where you actually go?

• 💸 And the big one — how do you handle splitting money without it getting awkward?