What should you check before moving a dating conversation off the app?

Something in a dating conversation can feel wrong long before you can call it a scam.

I built RealAttraction.today for that uncertain moment. It is a free, private check for people who are about to share personal information, send money, leave a dating app, or meet someone in person.

It asks about the situation, not the other person's name or identity. No chat history needs to be uploaded, and answers stay on the user's device. It cannot identify someone or guarantee safety. It simply helps people slow down and think about what may matter.

What would you want a tool like this to help you think through? And what should it never claim to know?

Honest feedback is welcome.