Losing touch is rarely a decision. Someone matters to you, you think about them often, and six months go by without a word. It is worse with ADHD, where a person stops existing the moment they are not in front of you. You tell Coppice about the people in your life, by typing or just talking, and it keeps track of who you saw and what is going on with them. It watches for the ones going quiet and brings them up when there is a gap you can use. No feed, no profiles, nobody else sees any of it.