tended is a couples app that learns what your partner needs through natural conversation and journal entries, then turns it into specific, well-timed suggestions — a gift idea, a check-in, a reminder before an anniversary — instead of generic reminders. No shared calendar, no to-do list. Just the kind of care that usually only survives if you never forget anything, now backed by an actual system. Built solo, from the AI architecture to App Store approval. Live now in 175 countries.
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Hello!
I built 'tended' as a solopreneur. The idea started from how I perceived my dating style and while learning RAG and Obsidian.
For my style, I naturally keep track and remember the small things in my notes app about my dating partner, but its up to my memory to associate what's listed and infer with what I'm doing.
One day while reading up on AI structuring, it basically clicked, there is no good system in relationship Apps for holding onto passing details or "I've been wanting that" moments until it actually mattered.
Most relationship apps let that stuff fall by the wayside. So tended learns from real inputs and journal entries, builds an actual model of what your partner cares about, and surfaces specific suggestions from it: a gift idea, a nudge that she loves something right as you're passing the store that sells it, a personalized reminder before an anniversary.
Let me know if you're interested. Would be happy to answer any questions.
It is an app that requires a partner, so it'd be great to hear from couples!
Hello!
I built 'tended' as a solopreneur. The idea started from how I perceived my dating style and while learning RAG and Obsidian.
For my style, I naturally keep track and remember the small things in my notes app about my dating partner, but its up to my memory to associate what's listed and infer with what I'm doing.
One day while reading up on AI structuring, it basically clicked, there is no good system in relationship Apps for holding onto passing details or "I've been wanting that" moments until it actually mattered.
Most relationship apps let that stuff fall by the wayside. So tended learns from real inputs and journal entries, builds an actual model of what your partner cares about, and surfaces specific suggestions from it: a gift idea, a nudge that she loves something right as you're passing the store that sells it, a personalized reminder before an anniversary.
Let me know if you're interested. Would be happy to answer any questions.
It is an app that requires a partner, so it'd be great to hear from couples!