Fathom: Scratch to reveal your next real-world experience

Hey Product Hunt! 👋 I'm Arjen, the maker of Fathom. I built this over the past year because I noticed something uncomfortable: my most meaningful relationships were getting shallower while my screen time was going up. Fathom is my attempt to fix that — not with another productivity system, but with real experiences you actually do together. The scratch mechanic is intentional. There's something about physically revealing your next experience that creates commitment in a way a list never does. You scratch, you see it, you do it. A few experiences I'm personally proud of: 💑 The Hard Question — each partner writes one question they've never dared ask. Swap papers simultaneously. Answer honestly. No deflecting. 👨‍👧 Midnight Feast — after bedtime, surprise your child with snacks on a blanket, torchlight only. Keep it a secret between you. 👫 The Honest Mile — walk with friends, each person shares one true thing they've never said to the group. Walking lowers the social pressure in a way sitting face-to-face doesn't. 🧘 One Hour Without Input — no phone, no music, no podcast, no book. Just you and whatever arises. The hardest activity in the library. The Couples pack is completely free. Would love your feedback — especially on which experiences resonate most. Less surface. More life. ✦