I'm a big fan of Secret (http://secret.ly, http://www.producthunt.co/posts/...) and have wondered if they will add anonymous, private chat in the future similar to Whisper.
@pud just released this neat hack. The flow is awkward but unfortunately there aren't really any better alternatives. Simply register an anonymous account and share your username with someone on Secret in the comments to open up an anonymous chat.
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