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I built the first version of SoftSaid with preset questions and Yes/No answers. It worked technically but felt like filling out a form. So I stripped it down to free text — but then realized I'd just built texting with extra steps. Before scrapping it entirely, I researched every competitor: Paired, Agapé, Couply, Couple Game, Spicer, Answer Together, LovBirdz. Seven apps, all doing some...
SoftSaidA blind reveal for the things two people can't say out loud
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I built the first version of SoftSaid with preset question categories, fixed Yes/No answers, and an interpretation engine that told you what your answers "meant." Every time I tested it with a real scenario, it felt like filling out a form. "Do you still want to be business partners?" — Yes/No doesn't capture what someone actually needs to say. So I killed it all. Removed the categories,...
SoftSaidA blind reveal for the things two people can't say out loud
Set a question you can't ask out loud. Both people write their honest answer — blind. Then both predict what the other person wrote. The reveal shows four things: what you said, what they said, what you predicted, and what they predicted. The gap between reality and prediction is where the real insight lives. No app download. No login. No subscription. Just a link. Works for any two-person relationship — cofounders, friends, roommates, couples, family.
SoftSaidA blind reveal for the things two people can't say out loud