Alan

Alan

Founder. Building a relationship app.

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After 26 years together, I noticed relationship apps serve dating or crisis — nothing for the quiet middle years where effort just fades. So I built a private app just for men: no quizzes, no shared dashboard, no convincing your partner to join. It helps you privately craft thoughtful messages and suggests dates/getaways tailored to her tastes — all on your timeline, your initiative. Unlike Paired/Lasting (mutual, visible, both partners opt in), this is single-sided — zero coordination cost, zero awkward "let's use an app together" conversation. Just launched, 2 weeks in, learning fast. Would love this community's take: what would make you open a relationship app weekly? What's missing from tools like this? Thanks for checking it out! pingher.app

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pingher.app the AI PA for married men - pingher.app helps men with the emotional needs of their wife

Now available on Google Play: Pingher is the daily companion that helps men stay emotionally present in their relationship, through small, warm, personalised messages, gift ideas, and shared anniversary rituals. Pingher gives men a daily on-ramp to be more present, without forcing them to "do the work" of generating warmth from scratch. For married or long-term-partnered men, tech-comfortable, well-intentioned. For men who read articles like "10 ways to be a better husband" and forget by Friday.
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