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Tend Notes
Relationship notes and repair
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Relationship notes and repair
5 followers
Tend Notes is a private relationship care notebook for partners, friends, and family relationships. Use it to record small relationship check-ins, review emotional patterns, and generate repair-oriented prompts after conflict. The app is not a social network, dating app, or chat app. It is a local-first notebook for reflection, emotional sync, and practical relationship maintenance.
A small thing that would mean a lot: a gentle weekly summary that highlights recurring themes across entries, like "you both mentioned feeling unheard three times this month," so patterns actually surface instead of staying buried in individual notes.
@muammerida25618 This is such a smart idea — and honestly, it's been on our internal wishlist too. 🔥
A weekly summary that surfaces recurring themes (like "feeling unheard" showing up multiple times) would turn individual entries into actual insights, which is exactly what we want.
The challenge is doing it in a way that feels gentle, not judgmental. We don't want it to feel like a report card. 😅
How would you want to receive it? A push notification? An in-app view? Or even just a shareable card?
Would love to see a shared timeline view that both partners can contribute to and review together, with the option to keep sensitive entries private on your side. That way you can do gentle check-ins without losing the personal reflection space.
@erdalqqx2 This is such a thoughtful suggestion — and honestly, it hits on a tension we've been wrestling with ourselves.
We've actually sketched something similar: a "shared view" mode where you can selectively expose certain entries to your partner, while keeping others private. That way, the personal reflection space stays intact.
The challenge is technical: Tend Notes is local-first, so secure sharing without compromising privacy is non-trivial. But it's exactly the kind of problem we want to solve.
Quick question: would you prefer a read-only shared view, or fully collaborative where both can edit? That changes how we'd approach it.
Really appreciate this — this is the exact kind of conversation we hoped for when we launched. 🙏
The local-first approach feels right for something this personal, and the repair-oriented prompts after conflict actually nudged me to rethink a small argument I'd been stewing on. Surprised how much I used it in just a couple days.
@ala83719984275 This means so much to hear — especially the part about rethinking an argument you'd been stewing on. That's exactly the kind of gentle nudge we wanted to create. 🙏
And glad the local-first approach resonates! Privacy felt non-negotiable for something this personal.
Curious — what made you reach for it in those first couple days? Was it a specific moment, or just curiosity?
The local-first approach is a really thoughtful choice for something this personal, it respects the intimacy of the content. Glad someone finally built for reflection rather than performance.
@saliha43403 This comment honestly made our day. 🙏
"Reflection rather than performance" — you nailed exactly what we set out to build. Relationships shouldn't feel like a social media feed.
Really grateful for this. Anything you'd love to see in future versions?