TeaonherChecker: Check if you are posted on TeaOnHer

TeaonherChecker is a private self-check preparation flow that helps you organize your own identifying details for an independent, analyst-reviewed review of whether your information may appear on TeaOnHer. The service is designed for women reviewing their own details—not for monitoring partners, former partners, employees, or strangers. You begin by entering identity anchors such as your first name and city/metro area, then add additional narrowing identifiers like your age range, a current public handle (e.g., Instagram or dating-profile handle), and an optional recent self-photo. You also provide a concise context note (such as a relevant date range, dating app, nickname, or profile change) so the analyst can compare contextual evidence rather than relying on a name alone. TeaonherChecker emphasizes privacy and limits: your intake is not posted or shared with the person discussed, searches are run from analyst accounts (not an account created in your name), and the poster is not contacted (no friend request or direct message). The service does not request passwords, Social Security numbers, government IDs, or card/bank details; Stripe handles payments so card data does not reach the service servers. The review process separates intake, contextual comparison, and written documentation so you can see which details guided the analyst and where matching limitations exist. The site also provides guidance on when to use TeaonherChecker (e.g., when uncertainty affects real decisions) and when it is a reasonable fit (you can provide more than a common first name; you are checking information about yourself; you want documented context rather than rumor). It includes a preparation checklist and common mistakes to avoid, such as using only a common name, mixing identifiers from different time periods, or submitting another person’s private information. The analyst may request clarification when identifiers conflict or several people share the same details, and the review is delivered to the email address you provide with the search scope and limitations recorded.