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Deesca
Stop having the same fight. A mediator for couples.
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Stop having the same fight. A mediator for couples.
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Deesca is a relationship coach and mediator for couples. Put both sides of an argument in, typed or spoken, or invite your partner into a private room. Get back what each of you needs, your common ground and one next step. No winner, no blame.
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Hi Product Hunt 👋 I'm Utku, and I built Deesca.
There are moments in every relationship when you can't make the other person understand you. You want to fix it, but in that moment you can't step outside of it, and friends usually just take your side. I've been there more times than I'd like, so I built the calm third voice I wished I'd had.
How it works:
• The Mediator: each of you puts your side in (or your partner joins a private shared room with a code, and neither of you sees the other's words). You get a Peace Treaty: what each of you really needs, your common ground and one specific next step. It never declares a winner, because that's how the same fight comes back next week.
• The Relationship Coach remembers your story, so you never re-explain years of context.
• Red Flag Check reads a chat screenshot and names patterns like guilt-tripping, with three calm ways to reply.
It's not therapy and doesn't pretend to be. It's for the everyday arguments in between.
It's free to try on iPhone, in 7 languages. I'd love your honest feedback, especially on the shared room. What would make you actually use this with your partner?