FamilyOps

Hey everyone, I'm Bertrand, founder of FamilyOps. I built this because I live the problem. My son is three and has Cerebral Palsy. When he was born, my partner and I didn't think about "systems" or "mental load" — we thought about love. What we discovered was how heavy family life becomes when care is constant, unpredictable, and invisible. Therapies. Appointments. Paperwork. The endless anticipating. And most of it living silently in our heads — never on a to-do list, never acknowledged, never fairly shared. I realized we weren't struggling because we lacked effort. We were struggling because the structure of our life was invisible. And you can't share what you can't see. So I built FamilyOps. It's not a task manager. It's not a chore app. It's a household operating system that maps who carries what — the constant knowing, remembering, anticipating that exhausts families long before the actual doing. If you've ever felt like you're carrying more than anyone sees, FamilyOps was built for you. Would love your feedback. And happy to answer any questions about the product, the philosophy, or the journey. — Bertrand